See Who Swiped Down On You in "You Liked" Section
It would be nice to be able to see who has swiped down on you when you are reviewing your "You Liked" section. This would help you decide if you want to send a Note to someone that you previously only swiped up on.
Comments: 30
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23 Jun, '23
TonyIf the person in the "You liked" section down swiped on my profile, add a down arrow icon next to the message or boost icons, or if looking at their profile, next to the online status icon.
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07 Sep, '23
JackPrecisely. The thought process that most often occurs when boosting/sending notes is you hope they just haven't seen your profile yet, and you want to expedite that. But if the hard truth is that they have seen it but just swiped down, having that knowledge conspicuously indicated would help avoid wasting a boost/note on them (unless of course you think to can win them over in 200 characters 😏).
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30 Sep, '23
Kenion H.I completely agree that this feature would be helpful. Trying to gage interest by who is online but hasn’t matched with you yet is tricky because there’s no way to know if they swiped down or if they haven’t swiped one way or another at all on you yet.
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Knowing who has swiped down you and who hasn’t would not only will be helpful in knowing when and how to use notes and such, but perhaps more importantly, provides clarity and and an opportunity to respect the other person’s wishes. If someone truly isn’t interested, I want to be sure I know so I can respect that choice, let them be, and move along. -
20 Oct, '23
EliseYes please!!! The “You Liked” section is kind of useless without being able to see if they’ve swiped down on you or not yet. It could be as simple as graying out their picture to indicate they’ve seen it and swiped down.
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27 Oct, '23
BrodyI need to know if my boost/note even worked and if people have even seen my profile. Please add a feature that lets me know if they've swiped down and/or seem my profile at all.
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07 Nov, '23
DanI think this is a bad idea. Adding this feature or any variant of it would be an invasion of ppls privacy, and an attempt by one to force their will on others that aren’t interested in them.
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It completely undermines the the low pressure anonymity of this style dating app. ( it takes pressure off when a person you reject doesn’t know if you’ve rejected them or if the system just hasn’t shown your profile to them )
I don’t want ppl sending me msgs. That I’m not interested in. ( I have had ppl from other dating sites start sending me nasty msgs and one person even making threats becouse i wouldn’t respond to their friend request.)
Also Having the ability to see who has rejected you will reinforce a negative environment. By only seeing ppl that like you it keeps the app positive. -
16 Nov, '23
MatthewI've been on this app for three months and I wish people who swiped down on me would disappear from my "You Liked" screen instead of clogging up all that space. I would absolutely love this feature as something similar so I can further narrow down who I should remove and who I should use my notes and boosts on.
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21 Nov, '23
HélderÓtima ideia.
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25 Nov, '23
arikHonestly rather than having this feature I would prefer that if someone swipes down they are just removed from the “you liked” tab… that way, the you liked tab only has potential matches; if someone swipes down on me, it doesn’t really matter that i liked them before there’s really nothing to do with them anymore
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14 Dec, '23
JonathanWhat’s the point of liking them if they don’t like you back
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16 Dec, '23
Liam Nathaniel SolisThe Swipe must be unlimited
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22 Dec, '23
AnonymousThis would be SOOO nice! I wish I could know if the guys I swiped up on swiped down on me. Have them removed from my liked list so I'm not wasting my time waiting and wondering, or embarrassing myself by trying to send extra flirts to someone who's not even interested. or wasting my boosts. HUGE yes on this!
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06 Jan, '24
AnonymousThis is would be amazing because you would be saving people from wasting their notes or boosts. It could be something that comes with premium and allows you to see if they’ve seen you or it could be as simple as they disappear from your “you liked” page.
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25 Jan, '24
DaveDon't like this idea.
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Privacy was already mentioned above.
Also what if you swipe down accidentally, or swipe down and later change your mind or decide to give someone a second chance? I wouldn't want their opinion of me to be jaded because they saw I swiped down on them before -
26 Jan, '24
PatrickWhen I saw this, and realized it didn't already remove the people who had swiped down, I was really surprised and dissatisfied. Why keep them on the list you can see if they swiped down? Why not tell us if they've read our notes? We already have read receipts for messages... and as for making the platform more toxic, like Dan mentioned, I think continuing to show you people you've like who've swiped down on you actually makes it more toxic. The uncertainty causes you to dwell, which puts you in an unhealthy mindset that makes you second guess all sorts of things with zero information to inform any of your decision making. I think it would make it SOO much more easy to navigate if you just told us whether someone you liked saw your note/profile, and if they swiped down
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02 Feb, '24
AnonymousTotally agree on all the comments in here!
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I want to not waste my bonuses. I would want to respect if someone's not interested. And I'd like to not be waiting around, hoping, when someone's already swiped down on my like, unbeknownst to me! -
10 Feb, '24
EmmaI also think they should just disappear from your liked list when they swipe down on you. I don’t want to keep seeing people i have liked on that list if they are not actually interested in me also. I would rather have them disappear from my liked list so I can move on. I also wouldn’t want guys that have like me but I was not interested in to always see my profile and have them keep trying to reach out.
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18 Feb, '24
JuanSi me interesa ver a todas las damas sin importar su condicion ver sus likes que me dieron aun asi esfen fuera de los filtros
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18 Feb, '24
PatrickSo, I've thought about this a lot, and I think it would be SO helpful for people who already have strong self esteem, but for those who dont, or who really struggle to get likes, it could be extremely disheartening. Not "showing all the cards" and allowing people to "blame the system" can, in such cases, be better than having them blame themselves.
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I think a safe compromise, would be to only enable this feature on notes that you send, or maybe it's an add on, like boost, where you can only use this feature for certain profiles, but not all of them. Or maybe for profiles that don't get very many likes, the feature works differently than for those who get a lot, idk just some ideas -
26 Feb, '24
AnonymousExactly, but one thing that might be better or easier is if they swiped down is to have them be completely removed ESPECIALLY if you boosted or sent a note
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07 Jul, '24
MikeThis would be a very useful feature to have. I'd like to be in the know if a girl I liked didn't feel the same so that I'll know never to bother her afterwards. I think that some kind of marker or notification would be the best way to go about it; my fear is that having the app simply remove a person from your Liked page would only mean that they'd reappear later while you're swiping. In regards to privacy or people forcing themselves on someone, I really don't see either of those things being a problem, given that we're talking about merely scratching people off our Liked list. Where self esteem is concerned, let me say this; as hard as it may be, you've got to have thick skin in the world of dating. If the ladies aren't liking you, take a deep breath, say a prayer if you need to, and try again. There's bound to be somebody out there for you.
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30 Jul, '24
OlaWhoever has swiped down on you from your "you liked" section - they should just disappear from the list. Why waste notes and boosts on someone who has already swiped down on you? It's a waste of time...and no one should have to beg for another go! I think this should be implemented soon. It would be really helpful and would save time guessing and waiting if they've seen your profile.
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04 Aug, '24
A.sud.ingI don’t know if it would be helpful for everyone on here (specifically those with low self esteem, or self confidence) to see if they’ve been swiped down on by someone they liked. Instead, I think ima profile you liked should be removed from the “you liked” section so you know if it was worth boosting or sending a note. That way you can infer that it wasn’t a match without having to read or see that someone didn’t like your profile back.
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12 Aug, '24
AnonymousI disagree, I think this is a privacy/safety risk. I don’t want others to be able to see if I’ve swiped down on them and vice versa. Because who’s to say that someone won’t try to find you and message you and harass you because you swiped down on them? Also, I personally don’t want to know if someone has swiped down on me. For the sake of everyone’s mental health, privacy, & safety, it’s probably best to not have this feature.
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04 Sep, '24
AnonymousAs for privacy, I’d be fine letting people know I swiped down on them and I would like to know if they swiped down on me. That can be a toggle in the settings.
Another (and probably more controversial, but can also be an option in settings) thing I would like is showing how long they spent on the profile, at least in time brackets. I wouldn’t mind sharing that, and I would appreciate knowing if they swiped down after 2 seconds of just looking at the first picture or if they spent a minute looking through my profile completely before swiping. -
19 Oct, '24
MelanieI agree with those saying this is a bad idea, but I think there are some good suggestions for other ways to do it. Maybe if I swipe up and they swipe down, they don’t show in my list again unless that person later brings back all of their down swipes and decides to swipe up on my profile.
I don’t mind having a better algorithm in this sense, but I do not want people to know I swiped down on them. Especially if I know them outside of the app - that could create so many problems. Please don’t add this. I will delete this app immediately if this is implemented. -
06 Nov, '24
DavidI agree and disagree with many comments on both sides.
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Those people worried about others knowing they swiped down are the same people that “ghost” people, because they don’t want to take responsibility and accept that there isn’t any attraction there. Believe me. I’ve been on both sides. Ghosting and having been ghosted. It sucks. I’ve started sending a simple message saying I’m just not feeling it.
I also feel like we need this! As a man, we are considered “creeps” or “stalkers” if we talk to a women that we find attractive. But if she likes us, then it’s cute. But how do we know?! So we’re stuck.
I’d rather be respectful and not be labeled a stalker, than to take the initiative and message a girl to find out she isn’t interested.
Another idea:
2-3 times a week when you login, you’d see “This person liked you”, with these options:
•“No thanks”. Remove me from their Liked section.
•“I’m not sure” = Leave me there, I’m ok if they send a note.
•“Match”, I’d give them a second chance. -
22 Nov, '24
JakeI think adding this would make online dating a lot better and boost the confidence of people that are using this app . If someone doesn’t want to see that they should have the option, but I think allowing people to definitely boost peoples confidence !
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24 Dec, '24
DanielThis is a bad idea it will lead to ppl feeling harassed by ppl they are not interested in. A better approach would be for ppl you’ve disliked to go into a list you can look threw at any time and change someone to a like if you change your mind or accidentally swiped down. The list could indicate if someone on it likes you as well as this could be a less obtrusive way to persuade you to give them a second consideration.
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29 Jan
LouThis is such a good idea. If a note has been declined then the person who sent it should be able to see that. Put a down arrow icon next to the message if it’s been declined.