See Who Swiped Down On You in "You Liked" Section

23 Jun, '23
Tony

If the person in the "You liked" section down swiped on my profile, add a down arrow icon next to the message or boost icons, or if looking at their profile, next to the online status icon.

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07 Sep, '23
Jack

Precisely. The thought process that most often occurs when boosting/sending notes is you hope they just haven't seen your profile yet, and you want to expedite that. But if the hard truth is that they have seen it but just swiped down, having that knowledge conspicuously indicated would help avoid wasting a boost/note on them (unless of course you think to can win them over in 200 characters 😏).

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30 Sep, '23
Kenion H.

I completely agree that this feature would be helpful. Trying to gage interest by who is online but hasn’t matched with you yet is tricky because there’s no way to know if they swiped down or if they haven’t swiped one way or another at all on you yet.

Knowing who has swiped down you and who hasn’t would not only will be helpful in knowing when and how to use notes and such, but perhaps more importantly, provides clarity and and an opportunity to respect the other person’s wishes. If someone truly isn’t interested, I want to be sure I know so I can respect that choice, let them be, and move along.

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20 Oct, '23
Elise

Yes please!!! The “You Liked” section is kind of useless without being able to see if they’ve swiped down on you or not yet. It could be as simple as graying out their picture to indicate they’ve seen it and swiped down.

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27 Oct, '23
Brody

I need to know if my boost/note even worked and if people have even seen my profile. Please add a feature that lets me know if they've swiped down and/or seem my profile at all.

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07 Nov, '23
Dan

I think this is a bad idea. Adding this feature or any variant of it would be an invasion of ppls privacy, and an attempt by one to force their will on others that aren’t interested in them.
It completely undermines the the low pressure anonymity of this style dating app. ( it takes pressure off when a person you reject doesn’t know if you’ve rejected them or if the system just hasn’t shown your profile to them )
I don’t want ppl sending me msgs. That I’m not interested in. ( I have had ppl from other dating sites start sending me nasty msgs and one person even making threats becouse i wouldn’t respond to their friend request.)
Also Having the ability to see who has rejected you will reinforce a negative environment. By only seeing ppl that like you it keeps the app positive.

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16 Nov, '23
Matthew

I've been on this app for three months and I wish people who swiped down on me would disappear from my "You Liked" screen instead of clogging up all that space. I would absolutely love this feature as something similar so I can further narrow down who I should remove and who I should use my notes and boosts on.

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21 Nov, '23
Hélder

Ótima ideia.

25 Nov, '23
arik

Honestly rather than having this feature I would prefer that if someone swipes down they are just removed from the “you liked” tab… that way, the you liked tab only has potential matches; if someone swipes down on me, it doesn’t really matter that i liked them before there’s really nothing to do with them anymore

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14 Dec, '23
Jonathan

What’s the point of liking them if they don’t like you back
It’s a waste of time

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16 Dec, '23
Liam Nathaniel Solis

The Swipe must be unlimited

22 Dec, '23
Anonymous

This would be SOOO nice! I wish I could know if the guys I swiped up on swiped down on me. Have them removed from my liked list so I'm not wasting my time waiting and wondering, or embarrassing myself by trying to send extra flirts to someone who's not even interested. or wasting my boosts. HUGE yes on this!

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06 Jan
Anonymous

This is would be amazing because you would be saving people from wasting their notes or boosts. It could be something that comes with premium and allows you to see if they’ve seen you or it could be as simple as they disappear from your “you liked” page.

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25 Jan
Dave

Don't like this idea.
Privacy was already mentioned above.

Also what if you swipe down accidentally, or swipe down and later change your mind or decide to give someone a second chance? I wouldn't want their opinion of me to be jaded because they saw I swiped down on them before

26 Jan
Patrick

When I saw this, and realized it didn't already remove the people who had swiped down, I was really surprised and dissatisfied. Why keep them on the list you can see if they swiped down? Why not tell us if they've read our notes? We already have read receipts for messages... and as for making the platform more toxic, like Dan mentioned, I think continuing to show you people you've like who've swiped down on you actually makes it more toxic. The uncertainty causes you to dwell, which puts you in an unhealthy mindset that makes you second guess all sorts of things with zero information to inform any of your decision making. I think it would make it SOO much more easy to navigate if you just told us whether someone you liked saw your note/profile, and if they swiped down

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02 Feb
Anonymous

Totally agree on all the comments in here!
I want to not waste my bonuses. I would want to respect if someone's not interested. And I'd like to not be waiting around, hoping, when someone's already swiped down on my like, unbeknownst to me!

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10 Feb
Emma

I also think they should just disappear from your liked list when they swipe down on you. I don’t want to keep seeing people i have liked on that list if they are not actually interested in me also. I would rather have them disappear from my liked list so I can move on. I also wouldn’t want guys that have like me but I was not interested in to always see my profile and have them keep trying to reach out.

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18 Feb
Juan

Si me interesa ver a todas las damas sin importar su condicion ver sus likes que me dieron aun asi esfen fuera de los filtros

18 Feb
Patrick

So, I've thought about this a lot, and I think it would be SO helpful for people who already have strong self esteem, but for those who dont, or who really struggle to get likes, it could be extremely disheartening. Not "showing all the cards" and allowing people to "blame the system" can, in such cases, be better than having them blame themselves.

I think a safe compromise, would be to only enable this feature on notes that you send, or maybe it's an add on, like boost, where you can only use this feature for certain profiles, but not all of them. Or maybe for profiles that don't get very many likes, the feature works differently than for those who get a lot, idk just some ideas

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26 Feb
Anonymous

Exactly, but one thing that might be better or easier is if they swiped down is to have them be completely removed ESPECIALLY if you boosted or sent a note

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