Why are people outside my criteria able to like my profile
I’ve noticed that some of the profiles that have liked mine do not fall under my criteria. For instance my age range is set 21-32 but I can see that people 38+ are liking my profile. If the system is allowing people to like you outside your criteria then you should receive a special notification for when those users like you and should be shown their profiles without having to have a mutualup subscription. I think it would also help to have a toggle that you can set that would allow you to turn off and on the ability for people outside your criteria to see your profile. That way I can hard parameters for someone to be able to see my profile.
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19 Jul, '23
AnneAgreed. If I'm not even going to see someone's profile to potentially swipe on them, they shouldn't see mine. Of course I can only see the preview of the who likes me section since I don't have mutual up, but I can see that at least the first 4 guys listed are outside my age range. If I set an age/distance range there is no point of people seeing my profile who have a 0% chance of matching with me. Frankly, it's actually pretty creepy. Just showing my dating profile to people on the other side of the world or to creepy old men? No thanks. It should only be seen by guys 22-27 who live close by.
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06 Jan, '24
KyleI disagree with this. I think this should happen occasionally so that people outside my filtered range can see me and swipe on me. If this feature is added, then there should be a "how strict should your criteria be" and if someone says rigid then no one outside that criteria is shown and if someone says not strict at all, then their profile can be shown to individuals outside of that criteria. I'm not saying some 50-year-old should be able to swipe on a 20-year-old, just that if you are open to outside your range, we should have the option to indicate how often and to what extent we should be allowed someone outside the filters we have already set.
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11 Mar, '24
Rich NordellI set my mileage parameter at 102. I really don’t want to travel more than 90 minutes for a date(45 half way). Almost 100% of people that like me are from South America and Philippines. I’m 60, not open to learning another language, and it is not feasible to date someone 1000’s of miles away. If you want to be liked by people outside your criteria, expand your criteria and you do the filtering. I would like the algorithm to do that for me, Kyle
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20 May, '24
KatieI would love to have this set up. It would make the liked list more realistic, and might actually make paying for premium worth it. I don't want to bother seeing a bunch of matches that are outside my criteria. I also think it's unfair to swipe up on someone who you have no chance with because you're outside one of their ranges, often extremely out if it. It makes it harder to find serious matches and for serious matches to find you if you have to weed through tons of people who the algorithm should have already eliminated.
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17 Oct, '24
AnonymousI disagree. Not everyone is intolerant, closed-minded, and ageist, having been indoctrinated to only be attracted to people your age or younger. Let's not start limiting things for those with open minds and hearts!
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27 Oct, '24
HowieIt’s not “intolerant or closed minded” to not want to learn a new language or not to date someone miles away. I tried to date ladies who don’t speak the same language as me. The language barrier made conversations too difficult and some of the words would change meaning from one language to another. In my opinion, it’s logical, reasonable, prudent, and practical.
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23 Nov, '24
KatherineThere's absolutely nothing intolerant, closed-minded, or ageist. I don’t want guys who are old enough to be my father to even be able to see me, that’s just creepy. That’s what most of the people viewing and liking me on other platforms seem to be. As far as the other things. People are entitled to our own opinions including the one who said those things. I just disagree. We should be able to decide who views us and. I really am getting tired of seeing people the have liked me mostly being in foreign countries. I live in the US and only want people in my country who speak English. I didn’t want a language barrier.
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03 Jan, '25
BKI don’t really care if people outside my criteria can see me. I’m not too picky that a person meets exactly what I’m looking for. I’m open to options. But it would be nice if only people within the distance I set could see me. And if I change locations, the. I should be available to them for at least the first 24 hours after I switch locations again. Or have the option to be available to them.