Prove your age!

07 Nov, '22
Jo

Or, a lot of men saying “my age is older than what is says on here because of reasons I’ll explain later” 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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28 Dec, '22
Hammond

I think this is a dumb thing to add. If you can't trust something as simple as someone's age then the relationship is starting off on the wrong foot. Most women want to start off on the right footing. I think the user should be the one to verify their dates age. By asking there date. Not Mutal it shows distrust over something so simple.

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01 Jan, '23
R

Amen to what Jo said. I've noticed a lot of men lying about their age and uploading their high school pictures when it's obvious they graduated from high school 20+ years ago. There needs to be a way to verify someone's true age here on the app.

02 Feb, '23
NP

A drivers license contains (and is) sensitive infirmation. While this may seem convenient to know that a person's age has been verified, I would suggest that requiring the upload of a license is an invasion of privacy and a security nightmare. It's a lot of data to protect for a relatively minimal payout. Fudging information on online dating sites is a widespread problem, but I don't believe this is an appropriate solution.

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07 Feb, '23
Glen

Well and /or require at least the year of when the photo was taken. So you know how old it is. I'm seeing exactly the opposite problem I'm seeing young looking photos with older ages if a person looks to old it doesn't matter what their age is you're probably not interested anyway

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09 Feb, '23
Athanasia

I feel like this is a covert way of a guy saying girls are overweight when he meets them & wants the drivers license to give their weight. 😂 & While I have no problem giving my real age and/or weight, I am NOT ok with giving my exact address & other types of info. I absolutely do NOT want that to be shown to the public. Like….all my info? Are you nuts? Do you realize how dangerous that is for women? I’ve had a guy grab my chest & another my butt (after taking his shirt off and trying to make out with me) on TWO different dates from supposed active LDS men on here! I’m active too & I was so upset, but I was scared they’d follow me home! Imagine if they had my personal info?

18 Mar, '23
Smiley

I get where you are coming from with the age thing, but it’s really not that deep. Some people just look older in their pictures cause they aren’t photogenic or they just look older. If the ladies can survive with guys lying about their height, you will survive looking at a fibbed age. Also this is giving me Leonardo Dicaprio kinda vibes. Legal but creepy.

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06 May, '23
Lisa

I have friends that are forty that look ten years younger and other friends who are forty that look older than fifty.
But I think that it would be totally wrong to have to justify age.
I would especially be opposed to having to upload my driver's license because of safety issues. (Hackers, identity theft, etc).

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17 May, '23
John

A great number of sisters simply lie about their age. Some sort of government ID showing date of birth with picture for admin purposes only can alleviate this issue.

21 Jun, '23
Primitivo

Yo creo que para este problema, deve estar la opción de una cita en videollamada opcional, así ambos podrían comenzar ha conocerse un poco más, antes de una cita física.

21 Jun, '23
Primitivo

Para este problema,devemos tener la opción de videollamada , así podremos conocernos

27 Jul, '23
David

I think there should be a photo option that’s like the “Be Real” app, that you have to take/change once per month or so. This photo spot could only be used with a current photo (maybe taken through the app?) This would be a simple revolving photo. So any haircut, hair color changes, beard growth/cutting, style, etc. changes would be reflected in this photo of the person.
And it could be optional.

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09 Aug, '23
Jo

Government ID will not only reduce fake accounts, but it will also help increase the safety of Mutual’s customers.
Not to mention it will also help law enforcement. Seriously this change will help Mutual differentiate and increase transparency, safety and increase market share.

08 Oct, '23
Asher

I think that uploading your driver's license to mutual is a BAD IDEA! It's basically handing out information.

17 Nov, '23
Don't want old guys

Too many men lying about their age so they can cheat the younger women's filters. That's the whole purpose of those filters guys: they don't want you already! You don't want to send your driver's license then make people post one photo of themselves holding up today's newspaper then we'll know how old that photo is AND where they really live. I wish you could see your old photo in the line-up with the guys who really are your stated age because it makes you look like a drug addict.

27 Dec, '23
Asher

I agree that Mutual should have a better way to verify your age, but I think that uploading a driver's license is a violation of privacy.

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