Change Unmatch Reasons

120 votes

One change I would like would be: Unmatch - without a reason

I'd love to be able to unmatch without picking a reason to unmatch. Ie We went on a date and the chemistry wasn't there.
Currently, the options all are like "inappropriate bio, poor offline behavior, etc.... So I don't want to pick that if it was just a lack of chemistry.
I also prefer to keep a smaller list of matches. If it's not going to work out, I don't want to see them in my matches

Released Suggested by: Nate (15 Mar, '21) • Upvoted: 31 Aug • Comments: 14

Comments: 14

18 Mar, '21
Me Merged
Add a radio button in the Unmatch screen that just says something like "No Vibe"

Pretty much all the options on there are TOS violations, but there are obviously other reasons to Unmatch
20 Mar, '21
Kristy
Recently put this as my "explanation" when I unmatched someone. Sometimes you just decide you're not interested/ compatible, this should be an option when unmatching.
31 Mar, '21
Michael Patterson Admin
"Add a "No Vibe" Unmatch Option" (suggested by Me on 2021-03-18), including upvotes (1) and comments (0), was merged into this suggestion.
04 May, '21
Brett Merged
When you unmatch someone there is no option for “the person never replied to my messages”. That is the main reason I unmatch people and it would be nice to have a radio button option for that.
06 May, '21
Cecilia
Las opciones que hay están orientadas a faltas, y no necesariamente representa todas las opciones. Me ha pasado que tengo un match, pero habla inglés y yo español. Quizás pueda considerar otras opciones.
10 May, '21
Lauren
Sometimes I swipe up when I'm in a good mood... I swear I'm too generous because I go back and they're ugly.
12 May, '21
Moses Lotulelei Admin
"“Never responded to messages” option for Unmatching" (suggested by Brett on 2021-05-04), including upvotes (1) and comments (0), was merged into this suggestion.
02 Sep, '22
Aaron Huang
Yes. I feel this would be appropriate. Often both people are great people and have good morals. You should not have to find fault/misconduct when unmatching with someone you simply don't click with.
25 Sep, '22
Jonathan Hansen
That’s perfectly reasonable
19 Feb
Nick
Or just a way to manually archive conversations instead of having to wait 30 days for them to disappear.
06 May
Lisa
Sometimes things just don't work out... Not because either party did anything wrong... But for many reasons.
So to unmatch, the new option could say, "didn't work out."
01 Jun
Curtis
Yes add just a generic unmatch. I should be able to unmatch with out explanation.
29 Jul
mark osborn
I never know what "sometimes" church attendance means or "working on it" w a temple recommend. There are non LDS people on here which is fine but it's nice to know. That could mean to them going to Mass once a month. Perhaps a better question would be "how often do you attend your LDS ward or branch?"
22 Aug
Karen Barney
Please please allow me to move on with my life and allow me to unmatch whoever I want even if I liked something about them to be able to cut them free. I’m so tired of “if you want to see more matches blah, blah, blah” I’ve unmatched way too many steps I’m not allowed to unmatch someone I sent a sign of life to and now I can’t seem to get rip of anyone