Ideas for Mutual ? The Dating App as submitted to our Feature Upvote board. Ideas are ordered by 'new' and the 50 top matches are included. pr_8svdk1y3hqp5pzt 2023-09-01T16:40:38Z sug_0miu0xtgmpqdywh 2024-01-03T07:23:40Z 2024-07-18T19:12:59Z I was told by Mutual staff that we only see someone one time and if we swipe up or down on them, that's it. But I would like a second chance for me to swipe on others and for them to swipe on me. What if they have new photos that make me think differently or something about their new profile prompts makes me think there might be a connection? My revised profile is better than my original, please let people have a second chance more often without having to request to see your last 50 swipes. sug_xhnn7tzzwzss5af 2023-08-15T01:52:45Z 2024-07-18T19:13:03Z I would like to be able to see all those who I have liked and possibly a date as to when I liked them. sug_8u3jgx5gwtxmsky 2023-06-24T09:04:00Z 2024-07-18T19:12:45Z 95% of my matches don't even respond at all or just disappear after like 3 messages. The ghosting is just ridiculous. Please start penalizing ghosting by limiting their swipes or something. sug_qhhx0vqoobmtkgr 2023-04-23T21:40:26Z 2024-07-18T19:12:06Z I am not interested in an international relationship. Can you please provide an option to prevent my profile from being seen and getting liked from people outside my country. sug_tltbikqit04yaxx 2022-12-07T05:38:56Z 2024-09-24T20:35:12Z If I don't use a note or boost one day, they should start to stack. Some days, I don't have anyone I want to send a note/boost to. Other days, I come across a couple and it would be nice to have a reserve built up. We're paying for premium. We should get to use the notes/boosts when we want. Not just feel forced to use it or lose it each day. sug_of1x5dy7orsphvu 2022-12-02T03:05:19Z 2024-07-18T19:12:33Z If a person hasn't logged into their profile in over a month. Tag their account so people know you might never here from them etc. sug_svkawximt74q1je 2022-11-06T03:51:30Z 2024-08-22T20:49:56Z I want to "like" this person, but I need some time to think about it. I don't want to swipe down and lose them, but I'm not ready to swipe up. I NEED a place to bookmark this profile for later. sug_mka802cxureuaae 2022-07-23T01:16:10Z 2025-01-28T19:38:45Z Like the "Within Your Country" option, but narrow it down to your home state or where you're currently living in the US. sug_qtjosetdcqryyhw 2022-06-08T16:39:52Z 2024-07-18T19:12:03Z It seems like I run into lots of people I'm interested in, however It never seems to go anywhere. Just because the people I'm Interested in to begin with never get on Mutual. So I don't know if there's a way to make a filter so the people who use Mutual frequently enough who they can talk to. I know there's the verified profile thing, but beyond that I don't know of anything else. I feel like this would be helpful to do. sug_bckwjhtvzkdurwy 2021-04-17T19:42:46Z 2024-07-18T19:13:10Z Integrate fun little online games to play with your new match. Games to get to know each other and games to just have a little fun together. Perhaps Church themed trivia if you must. sug_uf4ejchsjy2q8ff 2021-04-01T16:19:33Z 2024-07-18T19:12:38Z Be able to see people you matched with in the past to retry. sug_n8vigc4pwueqqxc 2021-03-02T18:28:56Z 2025-01-28T19:38:45Z On the Mutual user?s birthday, they will be upgraded to MutualUp (premium features) for 24 hours as a birthday gift from Mutual! sug_thywehrly8i6vya 2021-03-02T04:36:55Z 2024-07-18T19:12:54Z During a conversation with a person you should be able to send him a picture. sug_q0oufhh9axlcpaf 2021-02-22T23:13:53Z 2024-04-30T17:12:44Z It would be nice to have different conversation starters to help you break the ice when matching with another user (e.g., two truths and a lie, best discovery: Netflix or Avocados? etc.). sug_mk5btnoq6eahuvj 2021-02-19T18:39:42Z 2024-07-18T19:12:55Z Light-on-dark color scheme. This color scheme uses light-colored text and icons on a dark background. sug_guydbtidcwostv6 2025-06-13T12:13:07Z 2025-06-13T12:14:21Z I want to be able to enable a toggle that removes people who are ward hopping from my search feed so that I can only see people that are actually local to me. sug_2gv1rde2nyps6ln 2025-02-04T13:32:44Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z I would like to be able to block my account from receiving notes. When I swipe up on somebody, I am consenting to having them talk to me. But when I have not seen their profile yet, I have not been able to give that consent. It is very uncomfortable to receive flirtatious messages from a stranger I didn?t agree to talk to. sug_tokt4d1vf8lgfth 2025-02-02T15:23:42Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z sug_z8rnh85zlsz6z0d 2025-02-02T15:22:27Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z sug_3wsrknfvzyhhbfk 2025-02-02T14:53:21Z 2025-02-05T20:30:22Z sug_svn0pus2rs4wapu 2025-01-31T12:34:32Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z There are many single people in the LDS church, not connecting. I suggest promoting LDS Mutual at every ward.. putting a poster up on the note board for people to see & to download the app. I want to know everyone who is single and available, over the world... I haven't found my match & want to before the year is over ? sug_qpqy4fk4l3ruxtp 2025-01-31T07:23:29Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z The fact that seeing who liked me profile is a premium feature is weird. If I can't see who liked me, that means that the people I liked can't see me either without premium. If that's the case what is even the point of liking people's profiles or even using the app at all. Matching with people is the whole point of the app and if I can't do that, then it's useless. Having to pay for the option is just ridiculous and it is also a ridiculous price. Just make paying for the app required at install then if you really insist on making the most integral part of the app paid content. sug_v8qvtzosetw0kkr 2025-01-31T00:03:13Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z There should be a way to filter who wants just frienship and who has intentions for marriage if they liked you sug_aalawcbfwkbbrp5 2025-01-30T23:43:29Z 2025-02-05T20:28:00Z Can a watch add function be added to get more swipes. Netflix subscribers pay less for that than these dating apps . sug_ht64diiju4dcf5i 2025-01-29T18:13:19Z 2025-02-05T20:28:01Z I'd love to know if the person I'm swiping up on has the same interests as I do and knowing if someone is interested in dating internationally is of importance it saves mine and their time in searching for potential partners, it's becoming tedious continually swiping on people who are not interested and do not want their inbox filled with people from outside their country sug_wp326ynvmx7grda 2025-01-29T06:12:50Z 2025-02-05T20:28:01Z Keep users from finding you online based off your first name by using a username/nickname instead. It?s scarily easy to find people online and IRL with just a first name and location. sug_irg8ddbxg6sxoww 2025-01-29T04:51:39Z 2025-02-05T20:28:01Z Instead of just going off of a mile radius, why not allow the option to filter by state?? I feel like I?m not seeing as many people in the state I live as there should be. sug_hhnx0qkl6ocumjg 2025-01-28T13:26:30Z 2025-01-28T20:40:01Z Currently I can sort the list of people that have liked me but I?d like to be able to use the same filters that the queue has on the list of people that have liked me. Distance, church attendance, politics, etc sug_pwpamic4jjd8ysv 2025-01-28T03:59:37Z 2025-01-28T20:40:01Z If we match, but some of us is on vacation or in a business trip and isn't online during a week, the opportunity to know each other will disappear, because it will be available only for 7 days. Please give us 3 or 4 weeks as minimum life time for a Match. Some of us have busy lifestyle. Thanks in advance ? sug_7cqezmhewdhizsu 2025-01-28T01:05:58Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z I think all need to choose if they are willing to travel or not, and those that are, how many miles. sug_a2i0vez5zo2icqd 2025-01-27T22:50:35Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z I don't remember when I swiped up , that I liked someone. It would be nice to have a date stamp, so in xxx time frame, if they did 't respond, you could remove they from your active liked list, then they could go an archived like list sug_mcq6btdv8umbyny 2025-01-24T17:54:21Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z sug_m9m1mhbnbrp7pjr 2025-01-23T13:00:10Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z sug_x62jfv364rxb8w7 2025-01-23T02:12:30Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z You should provide an option to select that you are an empty nester. Could be a great way for the older people to search for an empty nester sug_yfjvulw1nyq7s6i 2025-01-22T16:57:05Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z Other apps allow you to input phone numbers to people that you don't want to see. It's not pleasant to see your ex on an app. sug_hacjqrjzxvdsqwu 2025-01-18T12:15:12Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z If you get on the app each day and are being active, more rewards should be given. Or the user should be able to choose which note is read each day. sug_zcdk1fw7pkdzrxq 2025-01-18T04:42:20Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z People could post anonymous (polite) tips and thoughts about your profile to help you out. Things that are easily fixed obviously and not judgements about your personality ? sug_uca0z03mrdpjbvw 2025-01-13T17:44:47Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z After a match has occurred, allow a person to rate their interaction with the other person with stars (like out of 5 stars) and add comments. Make it more like Amazon and Rotten Tomato reviews for a match and let the rest of the community review them. This would illuminate, publicize, and expose those individuals with subpar communication skills and qualities, like ghosting. It would help me not waste my time matching with anyone unless they had at least 4 stars (of 5 stars) or preferably at least 4 1/2 stars. Just because you eventually don?t match with someone, we can still treat that person with respect, decency, and civility. Perhaps, this could help eventually change the culture of online dating and make online dating a more viable forum to find quality individuals. In 1970 President Thomas S. Monson said: "When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance is measured and reported, the rate of improvement accelerates," a variation on 1850s Karl Pearson quote. sug_p3ikdi7iewu9nai 2025-01-12T20:55:01Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z Allow for someone to turn on an option for them to get reminded later of a message to respond to. (This would be especially helpful for when on dates. I just clear mutrual notifications if I am on a date so I am not distracted so remindedder later would be awesome) Also if I am at work, and I'm not mentally ready to respond while on break it could be helpful as well. sug_j15c2rdc8rwdhai 2025-01-09T14:54:57Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z I have meet not church members people when I set my filter with Temple recommendation. Can anyone just can add what ever they want without a prof of it? sug_keqmfgvwubccexx 2025-01-05T01:33:38Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z Give people the option to start the process over by resetting all of their down-swipes. sug_hhrxpbgznhng761 2025-01-01T11:44:28Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z Maybe it sounds ridiculous, but I think people would ghost less on this app if there was a button to send a pre-written, in-app "sorry but I'm just not interested" text. A lot of people seem to just be worried they'll say it rudely or something so they figure silence is better? Maybe it would get people used to sending that kind of response and realize it's kinder than ghosting. Any thoughts? sug_swrfsinyemxtusv 2024-12-31T06:57:23Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z sug_9dmqpw7uaeipti6 2024-12-31T02:21:46Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z At some point in the past, prompts started to be displayed in the photos menu. This is incredibly distracting and even reduces performance by duplicating each prompt (in the photos and detail menu). The ability to toggle this feature in the settings menu would be greatly appreciated. sug_asjtyw7sxfgt0zx 2024-12-30T04:19:56Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z I'd like a way to rate my interest in a swipe-up. (Zero to Five stars) There are many people I'm willing to learn more about & some I really want to know better. If my yesses could be rated by my level of interest in them, it will be helpful if I need to find the person I want to send a gold note to later (when I get more). Zero star = Swipe Down One star = Friends to start. (Swipe up). Two star = Interested to know them better by text chatting (Send like). Three star = I would like to text & phone date before meeting eachother (Send Like + message). Four star = Willing to meet in person (Send Like + Gold Note). Five star = Strongly interested. Willing to meet in person. (Send Gold note + phone call). All are positive interest categories. (No rating for nos.) sug_9gpnwootnaybjtx 2024-12-29T03:10:50Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z Dating is evaluating any and all interaction between people. If there is no interaction, there is no dating. Just as we don't choose to marry someone we haven't dated, we shouldn't choose to date someone we have not interacted with. I love the ability to leave notes on different parts of the profile, but I don't think they see it until there is a match. I would like to see more of this, with the ability to scroll through their responses from the "liked me" or "notes" page. I want the ability to actively influence someone to swipe, rather than just creating a profile and waiting for a match. Schools classes don't require a guy to ask a girl out before they start chatting (weird). A class allows anyone to interact with everyone, and then people will have something to start a relationship on. But I think this is the way people swipe, decided by a willingness to go on a date, rather than just to have a conversation. sug_nenmgdhyzdw2tys 2024-12-28T08:51:21Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z You should be able to choose which note you want revealed. You have to wait 24 hours so why not pick which note you want revealed? The only option is ?next in line?but it should be a choice which one in line we want to read! sug_5ukeeubut0pajtq 2024-12-24T09:46:58Z 2025-01-28T20:40:02Z Science of attraction states, at a high level, that people are going to be attracted to people they are the most similar to. This includes: - Physical Characteristics - Personality Traits - Values - Similarities - Physical appearance - Life Goals - Attitudes - Beliefs - Interests - Economic Status - Political Orientation - Experiences they've had in life - Attachment Style The app is ineffective at helping people to find others who are similar to themselves. I'm naturally into girls who are similar to me: white, blonde, thoughtful, politically flexible, that are into games, reptiles, books, nature, and healthy eating. I am shown, and my profile is shown to people who, given the above list, are incompatible with me. Anyone who looks at my profile has their time wasted. Same goes for if I see a profile that doesn't fall close enough to that set of descriptors, time is wasted. Further, mutualup does not solve this problem, and is unenticing as a result. sug_yi3ljoqre6psgkd 2024-12-15T16:50:29Z 2024-12-17T19:36:12Z I think it would be great if there were notifications or ads mentioning local single adult activities or even meet-ups. The more we can bring people together, the better chances people have to find someone they match with. sug_os9zpeejb0miyrq 2024-12-12T12:29:26Z 2024-12-12T21:55:37Z Allow us to be able to say what we want to say when sending a note. There isn?t enough space to really send someone a note so they come across as generic and blah